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mika


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Is there a such thing as "post puppy depression"...like how sometimes mom's (e.g. Brooke Shields) get post-partem depression?

I hate admitting this, but for the first few days after I got my pup and brought him home, I started having second thoughts, wondering if I had made the right decision...thinking about the fact that he'll probably be around for 18 years or so. I worried that I wouldn't be a good "mom" to him, that he would take over my life, that I'd never have a life of my own again.

Of course, the feelings faded and he's a happy little part of my life. But man, I felt so guilty for having those thoughts...

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I think those are very normal feelings for some people.  With my 1st chi I did the same thing.  I think a lot of people go through that.  Just wondering if you did right and if things are gonna work out.  Don't feel bad, you are gonna be a fantastic chi Mom! I'm glad the feeling have passed and you are feeling more and more happy with your baby!

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Couldn't have said it better myself Jenn!  I suspect those types of feelings are common for some.  Getting a dog, especially one as difficult as a Chi, is a huge undertaking for the best equipped person.  What with all the trials and tribulations of a young dog it can often be disheartening at times. 


It sounds like you're doing well now, and Roscoe looks healthy and happy to me!  The first year is tough as you must go through all the house rules with your pup, but it is so worth it!  Hang on in there sweetie! 


Love, Jess x


 



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I completely agree with the posts thus far. I did feel the same way with my Bella. On like day 3 i was thinking "oh no what i have gotten myself into" The feelings did pass after about a month or two and now i couldn't imagine life any other way. I am glad you are settling into Chi mom life and you will do great..and if it gets rough you have us for help :)

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Everyone is totally right on.  I was the same way.  It is overwhelming at times - but so rewarding.  You will be fine - rely heavily on these kind folks for support and advise and sometimes just to rant and rave.  I think I might have actually gone crazy if I wouldn't have found a message board to ask questions and get some ideas and support when I first got Sparky.  Someone made the comment to me once that I was really asking for it because Sparky is Chihuahua and Terrier!!  Couldn't have picked a more stubborn dog!!  But I love him so much and it was all so worth it.  Some days are still frustrating (last night was rotten) but I wouldn't trade him for all the world!  Then I got another one!!  Well, a lot of times I wondered what in the world I had done.  Will I ever get to sleep all night long again?  That is still a question I ask almost daily!!  But Tucker is so sweet and loving that I wouldn't give him up either - not even for more sleep!  Hang in there!  Sounds to me like you are a wonderful mommy!


 


 



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Isn't it amazing things you did realize others felt. Thats whats great about a forum like this, you realize your not the only one and we help eachother.

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